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How to Find Love

If you've spent a lot of time looking for love, it can feel like it's a long way away from you. Sayings like, “There are plenty of fish in the sea” only make you feel lonelier the longer you are alone. If you are searching for love, here are 3 tips to help you find the one meant for you.

Be the real you

When we go on the first few dates it's natural to want to try and hide our flaws, but if you try and make yourself into a person you're not problems will arrise when your potential partner believes that lie. The problem with this is that the love of your life might pass on you because they don't see the part of you that they can bond with. While you definitely want to make a good impression, don't do anything that isn't authentically you.

Be open to love

Many of us say that we want love, but when opportunity comes knocking we are quick to shoot it down. You may think you're doing a good job looking for love by presenting yourself on dating sites, but what about the people striking up conversations with you in the grocery store aisle? Opportunity is everywhere. Be ready for it.

Be confident

Who would you ask out, if you knew you wouldn't be turned down? Lack of confidence can prevent us from taking advantage of many of the opportunities available to us. If you think the single guy in the cubible next door is really hot—say something. You never know.

Love is everywhere. If you're looking for love, try these 3 tips out for the best possible chance of success.

 

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